Tuesday, June 23, 2009

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Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Same Room or Separate Room?


The ‘same room / separate room’ question is one that all members of the Lifestyle community will face sooner or later as they grow as a couple. Most initial Lifestyle experiences begin with same room sex because, ‘Well…it just happened.’ However, as you dive deeper into the Lifestyle, you find yourself in new situations that present the opportunity for privacy while playing, and this new option can cause a bit of difficulty within the relationship as each person’s insecurities bubble to the surface. There are lots of pros and cons for each option, but here are a few:

Same Room Play

Same room play is usually a guy’s favorite activity because we are voyeurs at heart. It’s exciting for us to have our own home-grown porn show with our mate as the star. The close proximity also allows us to be protective of our mate should something go wrong during play time. Other advantages include that the couples can swap playmates if it’s an extended period of play, it’s cost-effective if you’re renting a hotel room, and no one needs to leave if a question/concern/idea appears in the middle of the play session.

The disadvantages are rather straightforward: It’s difficult to focus on your playmate if someone else is making a racket a few feet away from your bed. You have no sense of personal privacy whatsoever. Guys, being visual creatures and a tad possessive, tend to watch their mate… rather than their playmate. If a jealousy issue arises, you’ve got a whole world of problems to deal with in that instant… not later.

Separate Room Play

Separate rooms allow for both privacy and concentration on the play, allowing your world to focus on your playmate without distraction. Your new partner can express themselves vocally and physically in manner that might otherwise be inhibited if other people were present. The playtime isn’t rushed because other people are done playing and waiting on you to finish.

A major disadvantage is that you can’t be there to protect your mate should anything go wrong. Other cons are less straightforward. Carol and I ran into this situation: We found ourselves and our playmates sitting at different ends of the same hotel hall because we thought the other person was in the room. It requires a bit more communication to know where everyone is. Also, you tend to lose track of time when you play in separate rooms. It’s a real bitch to find your mate and her playmate impatiently tapping their toes in a mutually agreed upon meeting area because they were done an hour or two earlier… Oooops.

Monday, June 1, 2009